Wednesday, February 4, 2015

What is crazy?

What is crazy? Around here they are so many things that I can classify that way.  The fact that my daughter's clothes no longer fit on the little hangers.  She is six... That's just crazy! Where did my baby girl go? She's long and lean and lanky. Almost all traces of baby are gone from her body.  She's got the attitude of a 16 year old and the drama to boot.  Lord help us as she gets older.  She's reading and writing sentences.  And when she's not trying to smother them with love or jealousy,  she's a great help with her brothers.  Although I did recently get the question.. "Mom,  can I be the only kid again?"  no my dear.. Never again.  But hopefully you'll be glad as I am to have a sibling one day.
Alex is still my little Olympian. He can roll and scoot and twist all over the room.  He is still so content and turning out to be my best eater so far.  We are on occasional cereal.  Not that his two teeth on the bottom come in handy yet,  but they sure are cute.  He's in a solid 6 month outfit which matches his age. Oh.. And he's finally getting hair!
William is still my technically curious kid.  He wants to hold and examine all things.  It's amazing to watch his little gears turn as he learns to make things go where he wants. He is actually sitting up.  It doesn't last long but he can sit unassisted for a minute or two.  If both my babe's were combined I'd be in trouble already.. Scooting and sitting up! Luckily they each have their own skillset at this point.
I have gone back to work about 20 hrs a week since the boys are in MDO.  It's slightly stressful but also enjoyable.  It's nice to speak to adults for a while.  Since I'm a slacker on the formal 6 month pics..ill just show some of the cute ones taken recently.
Oh,  and happy 12 years to Michael and I!


Thursday, January 8, 2015

5 month milestones

There's so many little changes taking place with the boys that I am afraid I'm going to miss documenting them.
The boys started mother's day out this week.  They were a hit.  Seems they are dubbed very sweet and good babies.

Little Alex has the prettiest eyelashes I've ever seen on a boy.  He is just precious all the time.  He doesn't smile as easily as Will but when he does.. Its genuine.  He has two bottom teeth now.  My little drool monster. He flaps his arms when he sees me.. Or when he gets excited. He's also learned to turn over onto his stomach.  Now if he can only learn to flip back over onto his back.  The fact that he can't just freaks him out and he screams uncontrollably.

Will is Mr.  Friendly to all.  He laughs a lot. In fact I sat the boys in their bumbo chairs facing each other the other day and when Alex sneezed,  Will laughed hysterically.  Then he'd cough and Will would laugh again.  It  was really the cutest thing ever. Will is getting very good with his hands.  His dexterity is improving by the day.  He has even started reaching for me when I come near.  His greatest feat involves.... His feet.. Lol.  He is so flexible that he can pull his feet up to his mouth and suck on his toes.  He loves his toes! 

He is a great nuzzler. My little snuggle bear who never laughs so hard as when you throw him in the air. What makes parents throw their children in the air? It absolutely ridiculous and yet we all do it.

Addison,  just today,  is able to read an entire story about a fat cat.  I'm so proud of her.  The evolution this year of her learning skills is astounding to me... To see that little brain start to really understand things. She is so tall these days that she hits me mid breast.  Where is my baby going? She disappears by the day.
We were given an amazing swing set by some friends,  we only had to relocate it.  That was a job in itself. But daddy did very well in coordinating it all and getting his girl the best swingset she'd ever seen that wasn't a public playground.
We are starting the year a little more on schedule,  slightly more organized,  getting to bed a lot earlier and eyes full of possibilities for the future... Not just ours but the futures of our three amazing children.

Saturday, December 27, 2014

Christmas 2014

Their outfits say it well... "best gift ever!". Had a great Christmas and at 5 months the boys just held their own bottle for the entire meal. Praise Jesus! Their independence means mommy will have  more energy.
Addison was so funny because every gift she opened was,  "I always wanted this mom!" even if she didn't know what it was. The magic was real this year as she was in awe of her cookies being eaten and the stocking filled to the brim. It's worth all the trouble and work to keep the magic alive.

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Look outside yourself

I walked into the dentist office today.  Time for a cleaning.  Her chirpy little voice sang that I could come on back.  I looked up to see my hygienist.  She was wearing a peacock blue hat with rhinestones. I'd never seen her in a hat before.  Midway through my compliment on her hat I remembered why she was wearing it.  From the back you could tell she was completely bald.  Chemo and radiation therapy. I remembered then what had flown my mind over the last 6 months since I saw her,  that she had been diagnosed with cancer. 
We all have problems.  Today I was wallowing in mine.  I had cried and felt sorry for myself.  And then I saw that blue hat.  A reminder that everyone has problems.  Everyone has a reason to cry. Whatever is going on in my small little world... Others face trials too... Sometimes impossible mountains.
Suddenly like a switch was flipped,  I can see that I really need to get up out of the mud hole I've made.  Not that I don't have the right or reason to be upset,  just that.... We've all got stuff. 
Sitting in Costco today without the twins,  I am invisible.  With them I cannot go anywhere without being noticed but today...today I can quietly spy.  I can listen.  I can get a peek into snippets of life. There are many well wishers.. The season is upon us.  In fact everyone seems joyful. There are, however,  some more people in blue hats that I just can't see.  I'm sure of it.  There's no telling who is smiling through their pain. 

Monday, December 15, 2014

Catch up

Its been a while.  But I'm not going to be hard on myself.  I am raising twins and a kindergartner now. Days just seem to click away and here we are already at Christmas.
We all survived a tummy bug last month.  Even the babies got it.  Sad, sad  little guys when they're sick. Addison exclaimed that she hated throwing up.  She's never used that word before to describe anything.  She had a right to that night. 
We spent a weekend at Stone Mountain,  out first overnight away from the boys.  Grandma and Papa said they were great and I sure did enjoy the break. Four and a half months straight of around-the-clock care for 2 infants- I needed it.
Then,  Aunt Gina and Uncle Robert kept them this month for a night for their second spend the night in a matter of weeks.  I hope they continue to be good so people want to keep them.. Lol.
The up side to staying at home with the boys is that I know my sons.  I know what calms them,  what they're crying about,  how to hold them... Everything.  And it feels so good.  The down side,  however,  is the feeling like I've lost all conversation skills with adults.  Maybe it's just because I spend most of my days listening for needs.  It's lonely and it's void of any fun topics unless Addison comes home with a doozie from school... Which she most certainly does.  My biggest regret is that I haven't been inspired to write any human interest pieces in  along while.  I need some inspiration!
Some weeks I manage to cram in 5-10 hours at the office too,  but that's maxing out this mama's schedule.  Christmas decorating was at a minimum this year.  I need more help and energy but I managed two topiary trees,  2 wreaths,  2 light-up porch reindeer guarding the walkway and some big ornaments hanging from the porch. Oh,  and the tree and stockings of course. Stockings... We have FIVE this year. Wow what a difference a year can make!
Addison is starting to read. This is really exciting for me to see her brain grasping these words and numbers and sequences. The other night we tag-teamed reading a book.  She would read the words she knew it and I would read all the rest. I can't wait until she starts reading to me!
Since sleep is my constant best friend these days,  I will head on to bed.