Monday, April 30, 2012

The Beach with the Dukes

Beach Weekend With the Dukes

 Don't turn around too long or Addison starts making it a "nude" beach.
At least she had a towel!


 Cadi, Rose, Michael and Addison

 Cutest little surfer dude

 Cadi is a talented hula-hooper!

Date Night

We were all dressed up for a formal event. The fact that we matched caused giggles from neighbors who thought we were going to prom. Ha!

Easter 2012





Friday, April 13, 2012

In a foreign land

I ventured into a Mexican buffet for lunch today. It was a celebratory meal for passing my real estate broker test. What I walked into was a little confusing as I opened the door to find a grocery store. Well, the sign did say "authentic Mexican food." As I waited to be seated eyes from all over the room came to rest on me. I began to feel a little uncomfortable. My body tensed. I felt self-conscious. I asked the waitress if I could sit anywhere...she just looked at me blankly. Finally an English-speaking man came and seated me. He followed me to the buffet where he explained all of the strange-looking foods steaming on the bar. I appreciated his effort to include me and make me feel comfortable. It made me realize that this is probably how a Mexican feels walking into a Ruby Tuesdays or an Applebees. They are not familiar with the cuisine. No one speaks their language. We all stare. I'm sure they feel uncomfortable and tense as well. In the least, for whatever reason they are here, from now on when I see a tan-skinned family with their little black-haired children in a place where they are the minority, I'll remember how it felt to be the outsider and try and be the friendly one who helps them out.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Outside!

It was a beautiful Sunday afternoon.









I love this "Super Star!" pose.

To be a Girl

Addison is all girl. From the love of shoes and dresses and bows to the necessity and ability to sit through a manicure and pedicure at the age of 3. She was even more excited when the lady gave her sparkles on her polish.



The whole process must have worn her out because this is were I found her in Kohl's. At least she's got good taste in bedding!

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

The Old Oak Tree

TREES

by: Joyce Kilmer (1886-1918)
             THINK that I shall never see
                 A poem lovely as a tree.
      A tree whose hungry mouth is prest
      Against the earth's sweet flowing breast;
      A tree that looks at God all day,
      And lifts her leafy arms to pray;
      A tree that may in Summer wear
      A nest of robins in her hair;
      Upon whose bosom snow has lain;
      Who intimately lives with rain.
      Poems are made by fools like me,
      But only God can make a tree.
This poem was published in 1914. That's probably about the time our large oak tree was planted in front of our house on Wrightsboro Road.
It grew to be very large and quite beautiful. It towered over our front yard and hovered over the street like a green canopy. When we discovered our tree seven years ago, it was hiding amongst a jungle of scrubby bushes and undergrowth that had been neglected for a decade. As we cut away the bramble and brush, there it stood. Crosses were etched in the side of it's trunk. Countless numbers of people had passed that tree, some had stopped to make their mark, some may have stopped for a rest in it's shade. Oh to think if it could have talked.

Even  the strongest, most beautiful things in this world have an end..as did our tree.

Today the city came to cut it down. Too old and too frail to make it safely through too many more storms, it was decided that it must come down. Piece by piece they dropped it. Three foot sections thudded to earth and shook the house. I could not help but feel sad as I watched the pieces fall. Such a grand tree. Such a long life.

Now the blank space seems to scream to me. I know it was just a tree. But I can't help but notice constantly that it's gone.